Japan is for the Japanese

She is just Japanese and she is under that Japanese pressure no more.
Debito argues allot of good things and I think he reached the same conclusion at the end that they seem to want to even hear it,

he might not be able to solve their differences and show them how the real 'developed world' functions or about how they would want to look at the world at the end.

She mentioned on many occasion how ugly she looked and I kept insisting she was not perhaps that is where the difference lays, they cant seem to see themselves out of their self nor what Japan is or what is Japanese.